Oct 16, 2016, 02:22 am
(This post was last modified: Oct 16, 2016, 02:23 am by Renegade. Edited 1 time in total.)
I'm around 50, and I've seen a fair bit of porn, starting with the '80s, or early '90s. I really don't like the porn of the last 20 years or more, because it is so impersonal and abusive. I hate the word 'bitch', so I don't like any porn that uses it. I would never call a woman that unless I was really angry at her. Certainly not while having sex.
I don't understand the male fantasy of being abusive or disrespectful toward a woman during sex. I think porn should reflect what us men really enjoy with women, which is just to be intimate and have fun with each others' bodies. This necessarily involves friendliness and enjoying one another. The word 'bitch' doesn't fit in with that. X-Factor was a good porn movie, but that was around 1984, which is called 'classic' porn now. Why in the world it changed, I have no idea. Everything I see now really turns me off. The 'acting' of the women is exaggerated and sleazy. It's not real, and I think it's pretty stupid. I guess the directors think reality is boring, but I think their exaggeration is disgusting. What I see in porn today is not what would happen in the bedroom with someone I wanted to be with. In the porn that has been made over the past 20 years or more, I don't see two people who like each other and just want to enjoy one another. I don't see affection, intimacy, the excitement of being sexual together, or friendliness. The '80s were much better.
I probably sound like a woman saying this, but that's how I see it.
I don't understand the male fantasy of being abusive or disrespectful toward a woman during sex. I think porn should reflect what us men really enjoy with women, which is just to be intimate and have fun with each others' bodies. This necessarily involves friendliness and enjoying one another. The word 'bitch' doesn't fit in with that. X-Factor was a good porn movie, but that was around 1984, which is called 'classic' porn now. Why in the world it changed, I have no idea. Everything I see now really turns me off. The 'acting' of the women is exaggerated and sleazy. It's not real, and I think it's pretty stupid. I guess the directors think reality is boring, but I think their exaggeration is disgusting. What I see in porn today is not what would happen in the bedroom with someone I wanted to be with. In the porn that has been made over the past 20 years or more, I don't see two people who like each other and just want to enjoy one another. I don't see affection, intimacy, the excitement of being sexual together, or friendliness. The '80s were much better.
I probably sound like a woman saying this, but that's how I see it.
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