HOW DO YOU AVOID PROBLEMS???
#1
feel free to share how you avoid problems in your daily life
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#2
The best way to avoid problems is to try not to create any...
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#3
If it ain't broke don't fix it.

If it is broke blame it someone else.
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#4
Problems are not to be avoided. It can appear anytime and anywhere, whether intentional or not. I think a good attitude is, how do we deal with and overcome problems. Running away from problems will actually create new problems for you. You will be able to survive only if you can overcome the problem, or you will become extinct...

that's my opinion and my daily experience life...
sorry if my words offending...
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#5
(Oct 11, 2019, 10:43 am)theSEMAR Wrote: sorry if my words offending...

It makes perfect sense... Some people's "problems" are nothing to other people... It's all relative. As you said, it's problem-solving... Even if that means looking at someone with the same issue that overcame it.

An Issue I'm working on is to not overreact and get defeated... That does nothing. As long as you try to fix it, you at least feel as if you are doing something helpful. I'm getting better at not overreacting... I either overreact or don't care at all... I know there is a happy medium somewhere... Gove a problem its due attention and just go from there...
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(Oct 11, 2019, 10:43 am)theSEMAR Wrote: Problems are not to be avoided. It can appear anytime and anywhere, whether intentional or not. I think a good attitude is, how do we deal with and overcome problems. Running away from problems will actually create new problems for you. You will be able to survive only if you can overcome the problem, or you will become extinct...

that's my opinion and my daily experience life...
sorry if my words offending...

No one should take offense at wisdom, but sadly some do.   Sleepy
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#7
ban hammer.
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#8
(Oct 08, 2019, 17:44 pm)LZA Wrote: The best way to avoid problems is to try not to create any...

+1 for sure.

(Oct 11, 2019, 10:43 am)theSEMAR Wrote: Problems are not to be avoided. It can appear anytime and anywhere, whether intentional or not. I think a good attitude is, how do we deal with and overcome problems. Running away from problems will actually create new problems for you. You will be able to survive only if you can overcome the problem, or you will become extinct...

that's my opinion and my daily experience life...
sorry if my words offending...

Try telling that to those who recon the only way out of to commit suicide..

Easier said than done...

Ease on the outside of a circle shouting at everyone on the inside to "Do the right thing" because its only "natural" to them ,so the larger cannot figure out why the weaker don't survive.. yet those on the inside feeling the pressure, they have a different way of dealing with things,, totally unrelated..

Sometimes even as not mentioning problems n the first place... Those on the outside sometimes just don't understand to begin with, and will never understand because they cannot see how bad something CAN be.

Not saying, don't try,, but don't be surprised either when it doesn't work.
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#9
First make sure it IS a problem: An actual threat. You have four choices:
1. Fight
2. Flight
3. Finagle
4. Forget

#3 means to accept the situation until you can make like a frog and jump out of it, possibly to one of the other three options.

#4 Means, if not in imminent danger, ignore it, and hope it goes away. Often it does.

In real life people are often overwhelmed by what looks like simple problems, with simple solutions, except they aint so simple in the real world. We have been so brainwashed by the media, which provides only a fantasy world with simplistic answers to everything.

And schools teach absolute nonsense for dealing with life.
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